What are we entitled to?
There’s more than three people here tonight.
But these ones stand out.
The Butcher is contemplative, his body coated in white bubbles, the plastic stool and wash basin to him part of the most sacred ritual.
He’s done this before.
The Baker kneads his towel, methodically, ridding it of the soap that he knows must not enter the bath. His hands are sturdy, powerful, well used. These same hands fold this now clean towel into a perfect square, and balance it on his head as he dips into the steaming pool.
He needs this.
The Candlestick Maker is already in the sauna. Heat is his playground. Hissing water hits the rocks and blasts what may as well be pure fire our way. But he, being familiar with fire, is undaunted, unbowed.
A statue.
We are entitled to nothing
For these men, this is a daily ritual. They make their way here every day. And I imagine that, for the entire month of March, they have devoted time to this.
Imagine, showing up every single day for an entire month
We are entitled to nothing
But we deserve to care for ourselves
Because at the end of the day
That’s all that is left
The butcher, the baker, and the candlestick maker are here every single day
A gift, they give themselves.
The gift of clean, of heat, and of time, to simply be.
Tonight, I’m their guest.
And, so.
Imagine, showing up to give yourself a gift. One that you weren’t entitled to, but in the end remember you deserved
Here we are, yet again. And you showed up, even if only for a couple of these days
Finding heat, and care, and time to simply be
Who knew that words, and art, and energy could offer so much that is good for our soul
I remember now
and I am grateful for the company.
This is it, you got it! Imagine, showing up to give yourself a gift. One that you weren’t entitled to, but in the end remember you deserved
I’m so glad you were here, writing and sharing!
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This is an absolutely captivating, beautiful metaphor! It embodies the welcoming nature of finding community through creation so well.
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Thank you! Love you!
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I am grateful you shared this gift to yourself here; it’s been wonderful to gain some insight into your life so far away from here.
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Entitled to nothing, yet deserving. I am pondering this idea.
And so intriguing that the discipline and community of writing and reading every day compares to the treat of heat and mindlessness for a few moments, that these 3 gift to themselves daily. I am thinking that many disparate things heal us.
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Incredible! As someone who used to go to the public baths as a child in Japan, what a sense memory you offered. Thank you!
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Very interesting play on many things. I’m still digesting and identifying some of them!
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Love this – gets the mind going early morning. Grateful. Love ya Bro!
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